As I, Martie McNabb, settle in for another episode of “Things That Matter,” I’m joined by John Davey—a man whose family keepsake is as unique as his story. John sits across from me, a small, handmade rug on his computer screen. He smiles, recalling the Christmas morning surprise when his sister gifted him this hooked rug, unaware that she’d become somewhat of an artist.
John describes its “beachy vacation scene” complete with a sailboat, hydrangeas, and a little green house—a nod to childhood vacations on Martha’s Vineyard. But at the center of it all is a detail that makes us both chuckle: a cat named Stripes and a tray of blueberry muffins. As John explains, Stripes had a mischievous habit during their childhood—taking a bite from every muffin left on the table, a story the family still laughs about decades later.
We discuss how, now, this rug has been claimed by John’s current cat, Kitty, creating a new chapter in the story. John reflects on the connection between objects and memories, and how the rug, while modest in value, is rich with meaning and family history. It’s not just a piece of décor—it’s a reminder of family life, shared laughter & connection, and the stories that outlast us.
Before we wrap, I share ideas for keeping the story alive, perhaps with a sewn-in label or even a QR code, ensuring that long after we’re gone, the tale of Stripes and the blueberry muffins will live on for future generations.
Fun Fact: John & his wife Melissa both shared “rug” tales as their Things that matter. Last Oct 2025, I got a chance to walk upon the 100 year old Persian rug that Melissa shared the story of in Episode # I saw the hooked rug in front of their fireplace & just KNEW it told a story too…. I’m so grateful John was willing to be my guest. Family traditions & stories are woven (or hooked) within the very fabric of these pieces of art.
John is trying his hand at photography in his third act ….
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